The Rock Haven

777, Maverick Drive


8th May 2013

Dear M,

Subject: Meeting Lady M (Episode I)

I wasn’t looking for love but I found you.

I can only imagine the look on Adam’s face when he first laid eyes on Eve. How his lips arched from cheek to cheek as he struggled to contain his obvious excitement. No doubt there would have be some form of resonance in his human spirit as he beheld the woman who was taken out from his side. Can you imagine? He is never regarded as saying that he loved her but we know that he recognized her.

First the rush of relief after periods of naming the animals, from the majestic mane of the lion to the slithering crawl of the boa constrictor, Adam would have sighed as waves of peace settle on him simply because he had found his bone. Immense, apt words to describe such a moment when the maiden first lays eyes on her man, when the prince holds his beloved and they walk beneath the canopy of endless sky and trees.

Well … I felt this when I saw you Lady M. From your droopy eyes that seemed to beckon to me, urging me in into her world, to her bright smile that arched from cheek to cheek. There was this rush of peace! I wasn’t out in the world searching for love, but I found you. It was a discovery that only could have happened by the perfect orchestration of Divine forces.

In this, I was in the same boat as Adam who knew then and there that the woman before him was taken out from within him. I too, knew that  you, Lady M, were a perfect reflection of my internal structure – not my fallen, frail frame but from the sturdiness of my recreated spirit.  You were taken from my rib, my bone – porcelain perfection, chiseled till excellence poured out from her.

Yours in Oceans of Love




The Wordsmyht

Turn or Burn

What is repentance? Repentance is one of those words that means different things to different people. Those with a performance-oriented mindset typically interpret repentance as turning from sin. It’s something you do (turn) as a result of something you’ve done (sinned). It’s fixing what you broke. It’s atoning for your mistakes. It’s sewing fig leaves to hide your shame. WHAT ARE YOU RESPONDING TO? In contrast, faith-based repentance is always done in response to something God has done. It’s the change of heart and mind that happens when you encounter His grace. A mixed-grace gospel will define repentance in terms of a prescribed set of behaviors (e.g., turning from sin) and emotions (e.g., sorrow and grief). But insisting on the proper way to repent is tantamount to putting people under law. The fruit of repentance may take 101 different forms—don’t limit God—but repentance itself is simply a change of mind. It’s what the word literally means. In the words of

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Don’t Judge Me

“Judge not” (Matt 7:1) but “REPROVE, REBUKE, EXHORT with all longsuffering and doctrine” (2 Tim.4:2); “Wherefore REBUKE THEM SHARPLY, that they may be sound in the faith” (Tit1:13); “These things speak, and EXHORT, AND REBUKE WITH ALL AUTHORITY. Let no man despise thee” (Tit 2:15). “All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and IS PROFITABLE FOR DOCTRINE, FOR REPROOF, FOR CORRECTION, FOR INSTRUCTION IN RIGHTEOUSNESS: That the man of God may be perfect, throughly furnished unto all good works”. 2 Tim. 3:16. It is necessary therefore, to have a BALANCED UNDERSTANDING of the Word of God. Many ignorant “Christians” may want to run away with the Word of Christ, which says, “Judge not”, but you need to understand that there is a DIFFERENCE between judging and correcting. DON’T QUOTE “Judge not” to support your sinfulness, unrighteousness or prevent others from correcting or rebuking you for what you have done wrong. Don’t corrupt the Word of God or quote it

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With Joy

You don’t know me yet you don’t like me. You know me and you have every reason to hate me. I have warts adorning my face and I am not even half as smart as Isaac Watts. Occasionally I stink up the room with my farts. And your favorite acronym for me is Foolish, Annoying, Twat a.k.a FAT. Even if you don’t think these things about me these thoughts inundate my mind. I am insecure and unsure… BUT NO MORE because… I am deciding to be joyful: to stop waiting for the approval of others, to stop waiting for the storm clouds to pass away. I am deciding to step out of this broken boat of bitterness and with my moccasins waltz on the waters. I know this that the Spirit I carry is the Life of God. I will walk with this consciousness into the valley of death’s shadow and those domiciled there will scream “UP NEPA“. I am

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